Saying good-bye to the pink ribbon, but not the cause

Tabling in Dayton, NV

Long-time readers are aware of my very active political background. I have served on our local party committee and worked for the DNC as a field organizer in rural Nevada.  I believed in the party. Four years ago I was a staunch Hillary Clinton supporter and there was much ugliness directed at people like me in that election from my own party.  It’s a fact, and I’m not going to sugar-coat it.  Sadly, it was a very divisive time and when I finally stepped away from the Democratic party I wanted nothing to do with activist politics. This isn’t to say I stopped being interested in politics, but I was sick to death of the tribalism of it all, Left and Right.

2005

However, I am a helper at heart. I like causes. I like thinking that I am making a difference, even if it is just one person at a time.   In May 2007 I started the job I currently hold. It is a large company (multinational) with about 400 employees just at our site alone.  In addition, over the years I had participated in the Northern Nevada  Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure as an individual and on occasion I would be joined by my daughter or a friend.

2009

When I went to work for my very large company I was very excited about the prospect of participating in the race on a team. When I found out that our company did not already have a team I formed one and got about 29 of my co-workers and their family and friends on board.  We raised a couple thousand dollars, as I recall.  It became an annual tradition, and over the years our team has grown to average about 50 members each year.  Over the course of those five years, we raised well over $20,000.

2010

In 2008 I volunteered to serve on the race committee and, in addition to my team captain role, served as the Database Chair for the next four years (2008-2011). For the last two years I also served as the In-Person Registration Chair (in addition to my team captain and database duties).

I’ve tabled for Komen, attended its national conference, personally given hundreds – if not thousands – of dollars to the cause.  I even served on the board of the affiliate as its secretary for about two years.

When I commit to a cause, this is what it looks like:  Full bore, pedal to the metal.

I am not a breast cancer survivor but have had too many friends and relatives affected or killed by this disease.  Just this week one of my co-workers, a young mother of two, underwent a radical bilateral mastectomy. So this is personal. Big time.

In 2009 I wrote this about my experience with Susan G. Komen:

The women I work with at SGK are a varied lot. But one of the things I love most about serving with this wonderful group of women (and men) is that when we are in a room together, all thoughts of political, religious or philosophical differences go out the window in our pursuit of a cure and assistance for those diagnosed with breast cancer.

That all got blown out of the water this week and it is why I’ll never give another dime or moment of my time to this organization. And all the back-tracking and weasel words in the world won’t change that.  Linda lays it out in a very blunt and to-the-point message.

Going forward my cancer research donations will go to the American Cancer Society, and locally I will support Moms on the Run who help not only breast cancer patients but women with other women’s cancers as well. And yes, Planned Parenthood can count on donations from me as well. I’ve taken this fantastic organization far too much for granted and it’s time to give back.

     

A couple of items

Go read: 272 billion reasons to feel depressed

On another note, I won’t be bugging any of you to support me in the Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure this year. In case you missed it, here’s why.  For years the local affiliate has had to deal with this nonsense, and it is beyond depressing that the national organization has taken the coward’s way out.

Locally, I will likely support Moms on the Run whose sole mission is to assist breast cancer and other women’s cancer patients in our area.  No lawsuits for “brand infringement.” No buckling to right wing pressure. Looks good to me. Nationally, I’m looking at the National Breast Cancer Foundation.  And yeah, I’ve made a donation to Planned Parenthood. You should too.

Our first critique night in our lighting class is tonight. I’ve got white spheres, cylinders and cubes dancing in my dreams. And not in a good way.

Power in the Pink

After this weekend’s affiliate conference, I am more convinced than ever that it’s not just about the pink. Yeah, the Komen ribbon is the brand, but it is what is behind that ribbon that is a force. I wish that those who cannot look beyond the pink, and the ribbons, the boas and the sometime frivolity could have heard the Egyptian doctor telling the story of the brave survivors who dared to out themselves by wearing pink, speaking to the press, and marching proudly in very first ever Race for the Cure at the pyramids in Giza and how that race, that raising of awareness, caused many women to seek out screening and treatment EARLY, rather than hiding in shame.  Or the woman from Bosnia-Herzegovina who spoke of their race that united enemies against a single foe. As one panelist commented, and I paraphrase, they weren’t just having a race, they were working on world peace!  A bit over the top? Perhaps, but it was a sentiment I could identify with. After years of working on behalf of partisan politics, stepping into a race committee meeting is like stepping into a nonpartisan oasis.

I sat in on a research session that was, for the most part, over my head, but taught me a little bit about what is appropriate treatment for what kinds of tumors. I learned that Komen has provided research grants early on in many of the treatments that are today saving and extending lives.

I learned about the Chicagoland affiliate which has taken a startling statistic (the more than double breast cancer mortality rate of  Black women in the area) and put into action a plan involving the whole community, public policy, and health care providers.

Me and my fairy godmother...passionately pink for the cure

I learned that empowering women to take care of their own health is the key to life, and that our organization will not go backward, will not tell women not to worry their pretty little heads, will fight for early screening and teaching women to know their bodies. Knowledge is power, and there is plenty of power amidst all the pink.

Local Events for Susan G. Komen for the Cure

In the next couple of weeks, there are events happening around Reno to benefit the Susan G. Komen for the Cure Northern Nevada Affiliate.  I’ll be at Coldwater Creek on Sunday, getting my massage on Tuesday morning, and Sweetie and I have September 30th calendared for a rare work-day lunch together.
 
COLDWATER CREEK TRY IT ON FOR THE CURE® – Sunday, September 13

The Summit, 13945 S. Virginia Street, Reno, NV

Coldwater Creek will hold its Fall Try It On for the Cure® events benefiting Komen Affiliates on Sunday, September 13. Once again, Coldwater Creek will donate $1 to Komen for each customer who “tries on” something, as well as 10 percent of the purchases made in conjunction with the program.

MASSAGE FOR THE CURE AT MASSAGE ENVY – Tuesday, September 15 (Spaces are almost gone!)

Massage Envy Reno – 6795 S. Virginia St., 853-8399 or 5110 Mae Anne Dr., 825-3689

Massage Envy Sparks – 155 Disc Drive, 857-3689

Massage Envy Carson City – 933 Topsy Ln., 267-9400

This annual event supports Komen with a $10 donation for each $35 one-hour massage session. All local proceeds go to the Northern Nevada Affiliate. Since the event’s inception in 2005, Massage for the Cure has raised more than $800,000 for Komen nationwide. Each location has 125 appointments available, and appointments may be made by calling Massage Envy clinic directly or online at http://www.massageenvy.com.

UNR dedicates Nevada-Missouri game to Komen – Friday, September 25

The University of Nevada, Reno is not only the site of the October 4 Race for the Cure, it is supporting breast cancer awareness in a very big way in the weeks prior to the Race by dedicating to the cause the nationally televised Nevada-Missouri game on September 25. From the moment Wolf Pack fans enter Mackay Stadium, they will know it’s a pink as well as silver and blue day beginning with welcoming stations at entrances with Komen volunteers offering Race and other Komen materials.

Spectators will view a moving game-opening sight: the Wolf Pack entering the field through a human tunnel of pink-clad survivors. Komen and breast cancer education messages will be highlighted in stadium announcements throughout the game. Game sponsor and longtime Komen grantee Saint Mary’s Regional Medical Center is donating rally towels featuring the Komen logo. To obtain game tickets, please call 348-PACK. Breast cancer survivors who would like to participate in the Wolf Pack team tunnel at game opening are invited to contact the Komen office, northnvkomen@yahoo.com or 355-7311.

RED ROBIN GOURMET BURGER’S KOMEN DAY – Wednesday, September 30

On Sep. 30, Red Robin is sponsoring a Gourmet Burgers Komen Day. Stop by the Sparks/Spanish Springs or Reno Red Robin, enjoy anything on the restaurant’s menu. 15% of all proceeds will be going to the No. Nevada Affiliate of Susan G. Komen for the Cure. Register for the Race now at www.komennorthnv.org or call 355-7311 for the Northern Nevada Race for the Cure Oct. 4 at UNR.

Thats me, second from the left, at the Team Captain KickOff in July.

Me, second from the left, at the Team Captain Kickoff.

Fit for the Cure – Thursday

From my inbox:

Come in for a complimentary fitting to benefit Susan G. Komen for the Cure!  Wacoal will donate $2 to Komen for every woman who participates, as well as an additional $2 for every Wacoal or b. tempt’d bra purchased.

DAY:Fit For The Cure
Thursday, March 19th
TIME:
10 am to 4 pm
PLACE:
Dillards – Summit Sierra
13933 S. Virginia St.
Reno NV 89511
775-852-3080

I’ll be at work and not able to participate, but just wanted to pass this along.